Jul 11, 2008
The capable man wields words adeptly. Whether written or spoken, words make the man - not clothes or money. Resist trying to impress when you speak or even write, because it'll come off as forced. But how do you make a favorable impression with your words? You must first be aware of what not to say. Rather, you need to know that embellishment is the surest sign of over-compensation, but that's not all.
Speaking should be an effortless way to effectively convey ... Read More
Jul 3, 2008
It should be a cultural requirement that every able-bodied man and woman work in the service sector at least once in their lives. Sorta like a rite of passage into manhood, only without fire ants and brandings. Having spent considerable time in the food-service industry myself, I am a better man for it. Through my time as a server, I have learned humility, I have discovered my capacity for hard physical work, and I have seen the evil that lurks in men's ... Read More
May 30, 2008
We've all experienced it. Sweaty palms, anxious quiver in the stomach, racing thoughts. No, dear reader, not the morning after a two-day cocaine bender. I'm talking about the minutes leading up to a public speaking engagement. Whether it be your best man toast at your pal's wedding, or an important presentation to some corporate big-wigs, speaking in public is incredibly nerve-wracking. And although alcohol can be an effective confidence-booster, it's not feasible to drink in every public speaking situation in which you ... Read More
Mar 17, 2008
We received many emails regarding our How-To guide, "How to Meet Your Girlfriend's Parents," from our female readers who demanded we write one for boyfriends' parents. We agree that meeting a boyfriend's parents can be just as, if not more, stressful than meeting a girlfriend's parents. Being a boy is excuse enough; there are far more expectations for a girl. That said, here's the How-to Guide to meeting your new man's fam. Good luck and God speed.
1. Pre-Meeting Grooming
All boys have to ... Read More